We cannot go back, and we can't be in the future. So we have to be and give our best in every "right now" that we have.
We certainly have choice in our lives to do what we want. The hope is we will choose not to make others suffer.
There are 3 key cancers of the mind that result in damage to yourself and to others.
Often we cannot love ourselves or others fully when we are stuck in our own complexes.
True love cannot be without trust and respect for oneself and for the other person.
When we know how to generate JOY, it nourishes us and nourishes others as well.
When we are compassionate, we love through non-judgment, and give to another a gift they may not get from anyone else.
If you fix the HOW YOU DO IT, you will see WHAT you do naturally transforms itself.
Thanks but no thanks said the young man rather grimly. The old woman smiled knowingly then handed the young man the bowl of salt and led him to a nearby lake.
When we remember the good others have done for us, we feel humble by our need for others and gratitude for the gifts we have received.